The Ego’s Excuses: How Fear Keeps Us “Busy” but Stuck
- keristroum
- Oct 12, 2025
- 1 min read

Have you ever noticed how the ego rarely says, “Don’t do this”? Instead, it creates clever excuses that sound logical:
“Now’s not the right time.”
“I’ll wait until I have more experience.”
“I’ll start once I feel inspired.”
These “reasonable” excuses can keep us trapped in cycles of waiting — sometimes for years.
Ego loves comfort zones. It resists anything that threatens the familiar, even when growth is what we deeply desire. This is why we often feel torn: one part of us craves change, while another whispers excuses to keep us safe.
The key is noticing the difference between a genuine pause and an ego-driven excuse.
💡 Try this: Write down your top 3 unfinished goals. Next to each, jot down the excuse your mind offers for not doing it. Then ask: Is this truly a wise reason, or is it fear in disguise?
✨ Interactive Question: Which excuse do you hear most often in your own mind?
✨ Journal Prompt: What is one small step I can take despite my ego’s resistance?
Sometimes, courage is as simple as moving forward with one shaky step. 🌻


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